Social-emotional learning (SEL) often feels like a modern classroom trend, but the truth is, it’s not new at all. In fact, Jesus modeled every aspect of SEL long before it became a discussion or a framework.
Jesus Noticed People
One of the foundational skills of SEL is social awareness: noticing others' feelings and needs. Jesus modeled this perfectly. Jesus saw the heart behind the behavior.
He saw Zacchaeus in a tree and invited him down.
He noticed the woman at the well and spoke to her with dignity and care.
He recognized the grief in Martha and Mary and met them where they were.
Dr. Tyler Groves and Dr. Kenneth Coley write about this in Growing With One Another in Social AND Emotional Learning. The beginning chapter in their book reminds us that noticing is the first step in helping students grow. When you pause to see the heart behind the behavior, students feel valued and understood, which opens the doors for real learning.
Teacher Tip: Pause and notice emotions before correcting behavior. Say something like, “I see that you’re frustrated. Let’s work through this together.” This comment may seem simple, but it models empathy and validation.
Jesus Built Relationships
SEL isn’t just about managing feelings; it’s about connection. Jesus built relationships through consistent care and attention. He welcomed children, ate with outcasts, healed the broken, and spent time with those who felt invisible.
Dr. Groves highlights that relationships are the foundation of SEL. Students thrive when they know someone notices them, values them, and meets them exactly where they are. Connection and trust make learning, behavior, and character development possible.
Teacher Tip: Take small, intentional moments to connect each day. Greet students by name, ask one meaningful question, or sit with a student who may feel unseen. These tiny, consistent investments can create a classroom where students feel safe, cared for, and valued.
Why This Matters In Your Classroom
Biblical SEL isn’t just another teaching tool. It is the way to help students grow emotionally, socially, and spiritually. By recognizing emotions and building relationships, you can help your students develop skills that last a lifetime: empathy, compassion, self-awareness, and generosity.
Dr. Tyler Groves’ work reminds us that SEL rooted in Christ gives students more than coping strategies. SEL will give them the foundation to navigate life with wisdom, courage, and heart.
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